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Woman on Top

The Spider Sex Position

How to do it

It sounds scary – but it is not! The man positions himself like in the image – with his legs stretched and leaning back on his hands. The woman sits on top of him, facing him. She supports herself in the same way, leaning back on her hands. Also, she controls the movement and thrusts by moving back and forth on him.

Why try woman on top positions

She controls the angle and tempo, he gets a great view and free hands, and it is easy to add grinding for clitoral contact.

Go slowly the first time, use pillows for support and keep talking to each other. If anything feels uncomfortable, stop and switch to a position you both enjoy.

Tips for woman on top positions

  • Grinding back and forth usually feels better for her than bouncing up and down.
  • Put a pillow under his hips to change the angle without changing the position.
  • Lean forward for more closeness, lean back for a deeper feel.
  • Her thighs will tire – switch to a slower rocking rhythm before they burn out.

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